Sad about having a boy not a girl? Your distress might be real but 'gender disappointment' is no mental illness
- Written by Tereza Hendl, Research Associate, Ludwig Maximilian University of Munich

In an age of gender-reveal parties, baby bumps on Instagram, and hyper-gendered toys and clothing, learning about a baby’s sex is big news.
But having a boy rather than a girl, or vice versa, makes some people sad. Some label this “gender disappointment”.
Our research looked at what’s behind this sadness and...